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My question relates to what is the etiquette (if at all) with the attendant/steward(ess) call button?
As I understood when you press the button, the light/beep goes off depending upon the cabin, then normally when the crew attend you, the call button request is cancelled… well that was my basic understanding. I am not sure if the crew are able to cancel the request without coming to your seat/suite.
So, with is in mind, yesterday on SQ12 I really wanted another cup of tea (after the meal service), I might add the crew were not very keen in doing the rounds throughout the flight, and secondly as I was in Suites it’s not so easy to attract someone either.
Therefore I used the attendant call button. I waited around 15 minutes, but nothing? Ok no issue, so I then pressed a second time, again nothing, and I am certain I did not cancel the request. Eventually after 20 or so minutes I walked back to the galley to interrupt a crew social event, and asked (politely) if I could have another mug of tea. The tea arrived within minutes.
From my past experience in F and R cabins the crew always make a point of telling me to “call” or “let me know” if you need anything.
Without sound pompous or pretentious, I have no issue if the crew socialise (and I often socialise with them to pass the time), but I was nevertheless surprised nobody came to attend me? The reality was I only wanted another mug of tea, but could have been something more important or serious.
Not being melodramatic but just wondered other opinions or thoughts, for sure this is one of those contentious points about SQ service, but opinions other experiences welcomed...

My question relates to what is the etiquette (if at all) with the attendant/steward(ess) call button?
As I understood when you press the button, the light/beep goes off depending upon the cabin, then normally when the crew attend you, the call button request is cancelled… well that was my basic understanding. I am not sure if the crew are able to cancel the request without coming to your seat/suite.
So, with is in mind, yesterday on SQ12 I really wanted another cup of tea (after the meal service), I might add the crew were not very keen in doing the rounds throughout the flight, and secondly as I was in Suites it’s not so easy to attract someone either.
Therefore I used the attendant call button. I waited around 15 minutes, but nothing? Ok no issue, so I then pressed a second time, again nothing, and I am certain I did not cancel the request. Eventually after 20 or so minutes I walked back to the galley to interrupt a crew social event, and asked (politely) if I could have another mug of tea. The tea arrived within minutes.
From my past experience in F and R cabins the crew always make a point of telling me to “call” or “let me know” if you need anything.
Without sound pompous or pretentious, I have no issue if the crew socialise (and I often socialise with them to pass the time), but I was nevertheless surprised nobody came to attend me? The reality was I only wanted another mug of tea, but could have been something more important or serious.
Not being melodramatic but just wondered other opinions or thoughts, for sure this is one of those contentious points about SQ service, but opinions other experiences welcomed...
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